Leadership & Management

Fiedler's Contingency Model

Leadership effectiveness isn’t just about the leader’s style but about how well that style fits the situation.

4 Patterns of Team Conflicts

Summary of typical conflicts in the workplace, discover proven strategies

5Ps Leadership Framework

Simple models enhance your leadership skills.

Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)

Using dual concern theory to understand and resolve conflicts.

SBI Model

Deliver objective feedback by separating situation, behavior, and impact.

7% Rule for Organizational Change

Start with 7%, Spark the Rest.

3A Trust Model

Gives you a simple and clear structure to build trust fast.

10-10-10 Meeting Model

Structure 30-minute meetings into focused parts for better feedback.

Johari Window

Expand self-awareness, uncover blind spots, and strengthen trust through structured feedback.

Tuckman Model

Help you better structure, understand, and develop the team.

GREAT Coaching Model

Emphasis on timing, ensuring actions are strategically aligned with deadlines for effective goal setting.

SOAR Self-Leadership Model

Built on four essential components that guide personal and professional development.

Leadership Success Model

Define the success of leadership via team engaged, personal satisfaction, and organizational success.

Three Circles of Influence

Grow your influence via focusing what you can control.

Bridges Transition Model

Focus on the emotional and psychological transitions individuals experience during change.

Goleman Emotional Intelligence Model

Foundation for personal success and leadership.

Satir Change Model

Details the process of change through five stages.

ABCD Trust Model

Increase engagement and commitment in the workplace.

SCARF Model

Uncovers the emotional drivers behind employee reactions.

CLEAR 1

Strengthen alignment between your priorities and your manager’s expectations.

GROW Model

Helps people clarify goals, assess situation, explore options, and take actions.

Three Circles of Influence: Focus on What You Can Control

Grow your influence via focusing what you can control.

FRAMEWORK CARD

Three Circles of Influence

Goal
Direct energy toward actionable areas to expand personal effectiveness.
Flow Summary
Concern (Ignore) → Influence (Shape) → Control (Act)
Best For
Stress Management; Leadership Decision-Making; Personal Agency Development

Feeling Overwhelmed Is Common

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by things outside your control? If so, you are not alone. Many people spend time worrying about problems they cannot change.

Stephen Covey, in his famous book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, introduced the Three Circles of Influence to help us focus on what truly matters.

This model teaches us how to direct our energy wisely to become more effective in life and work.

Understanding the Three Circles

Three circles of influence

The model divides everything we care about into three circles:

  • Circle of Concern
  • Circle of Influence
  • Circle of Control

Circle of Concern

This includes everything that affects us, such as the economy, global events, or other people's opinions. We may worry about these things, but we have little or no power to change them.

  • The weather
  • The past
  • The economy
  • The new/global events

Action: Let go of anything in this circle, it will not serve you.

Circle of Influence

This covers areas where we can make a difference, such as relationships, skills, and habits. We may not control everything here, but our actions can have an impact.

  • Your friends
  • Your family
  • Your reputation

Action: Put your focus on the factors that you can influence the most.

Circle of Control

This is where we have full power. It includes our choices, mindset, and behaviors. By focusing on this circle, we can take meaningful action and influence the other circles over time.

  • Your thoughts
  • Your actions
  • Your reactions

Action: Spend your energy and time improving what you can control.

The key insight from this model is that when we focus on what we can control, our influence grows. If we spend too much time on things we cannot change, we waste energy and feel frustrated.