FORM Technique
A simple way to start conversations.
The Relationship Map
A simple way to evaluate your relationships.
Stakeholder Saliency Model
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3A Trust Model
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PREP Framework
Deliver clear, structured arguments by stating your point first, proving it, and closing with clarity.
FIRE Model
Separate facts from interpretations to respond to feedback calmly and solve the real problem.
ORID Focus Conversation
Help groups move from information gathering to action in a structured and inclusive way.
Harvard Negotiation Principle
Six negotiation principles help both sides get more of what they want.
ZOPA
A practical negotiation concept that defines where a deal is actually possible.
Current–Past–Future Interview Framework
An easy framework to answer "Tell Me About Yourself" in a job interview.
VSNC Framework
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Three Circles of Influence
Grow your influence via focusing what you can control.
RACI Model
Bring clarity, reduce friction to the stakeholder communication.
ABCD Trust Model
Increase engagement and commitment in the workplace.
PART Framework
Structure your answers and emphasize takeaways to show real growth.
RIDE Communication Framework
Help you persuade effectively, build trust, and gain support in any professional setting.
DISC Communication Styles Framework
Speak their language, not yours.
FORM Technique
How to Start a Good Conversation
Starting a conversation can be harder than it looks.
Sometimes, you meet someone new and you just don't know what to say. Other times, you are catching up with someone you know well, but you still struggle to find a good starting point.
For both cases, small talk is a good choice. Small talk isn't meaningless. It's the bridge to deeper connections.
The FORM technique was created for small talk. It applies to networking events, sales calls, and casual meetings.
The FORM technique is built around four simple topics: Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Message.
Each topic helps guide the conversation naturally.
Core Concept of the FORM Technique
Family
Ask about the person’s family.
This is often a comfortable starting point because family is important to many people.
You can ask questions like, "Do you have any siblings?" or "How is your family doing?" This shows you care and are interested in their personal life.
Occupation
Start with light, optional personal context, only if it feels appropriate.
Instead of jumping into private questions, use softer openers like: "Are you originally from here?" or "Do you visit family often?"
If they keep answers short, pivot to another topic quickly.
Recreation
Find out what they enjoy doing in their free time.
Hobbies and interests can create strong bonds. You can ask, "Doing anything fun this weekend?". Talking about fun activities usually brings more energy to the conversation.
Message
Once you have built a good connection, it's time to share a meaningful message.
This could be about your services, your ideas, or even just setting up the next meeting. At this point, people are more likely to listen and engage with your message because people feel more comfortable after an easy, low-pressure exchange.