Communication

KISS Review Framework

An action-orientated review model to convert past experience into practice.

FFC Technique

Give feedback that is clear, specific, and actionable by combining Feeling, Fact, and Comparison.

The Golden Circle

For understanding how great leaders and orgs inspire action by starting with a clear sense of purpose.

4 Patterns of Team Conflicts

Summary of typical conflicts in the workplace, discover proven strategies

Active Listening Spiral

A framework enhances understanding, empathy, and responsiveness.

Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)

Using dual concern theory to understand and resolve conflicts.

AVP Model

A simple practice to accept the anxiety, anger or sadness and start embracing them.

SBI Model

Deliver objective feedback by separating situation, behavior, and impact.

7-38-55 Rule

Your presence speaks louder than your words.

FORM Technique

A simple way to start conversations.

The Relationship Map

A simple way to evaluate your relationships.

TOPS Framework

Make your pitch or message clear, logical, and action-oriented.

Stakeholder Saliency Model

Sharpen your stakeholder management skills via finding who matters most.

Winston’s Star

Apply five communication elements to make ideas memorable and repeatable.

3A Trust Model

Gives you a simple and clear structure to build trust fast.

2 Minute Rule

Change up the content every two minutes to keep people engaged.

10-10-10 Meeting Model

Structure 30-minute meetings into focused parts for better feedback.

The Rule of Suspense

Reveal your points step by step.

PREP Framework

Deliver clear, structured arguments by stating your point first, proving it, and closing with clarity.

Johari Window

Expand self-awareness, uncover blind spots, and strengthen trust through structured feedback.

FIRE Model

Separate facts from interpretations to respond to feedback calmly and solve the real problem.

ORID Focus Conversation

Help groups move from information gathering to action in a structured and inclusive way.

Harvard Negotiation Principle

Six negotiation principles help both sides get more of what they want.

ZOPA

A practical negotiation concept that defines where a deal is actually possible.

Zoom-In and Zoom-Out Model

Allows you to handle challenges with clarity, whether you need to see the big picture or focus on the details.

Self-Us-Now Framework

Help individuals and groups connect personal stories to collective action.

7C Pyramid Communication Framework

Aim to eliminate confusion and miscommunication in both verbal and written forms

Pixar Storytelling Formula

Turn complex ideas into clear cause-and-effect stories people remember.

Current–Past–Future Interview Framework

An easy framework to answer "Tell Me About Yourself" in a job interview.

Hero's Journey Storytelling Framework

A storytelling framework that makes your message relatable, memorable, and impactful in any context.

The Innovation Story Framework

Narrate how an idea was born, built, and scaled to demonstrate its real-world impact.

VSNC Framework

Persuade and inform with clarity by structuring your message.

COIN Model

Deliver clear, non-judgmental feedback by separating facts, impact, and next actions.

GREAT Coaching Model

Emphasis on timing, ensuring actions are strategically aligned with deadlines for effective goal setting.

Three Circles of Influence

Grow your influence via focusing what you can control.

Radical Candor

Being a great manager without losing your humanity.

COST Principle

Help people to deliver strong messages or express complex ideas.

RACI Model

Bring clarity, reduce friction to the stakeholder communication.

Magic Loop Framework

Capture feedback, act on it, make changes stick, and report back with clarity.

ABCD Trust Model

Increase engagement and commitment in the workplace.

PART Framework

Structure your answers and emphasize takeaways to show real growth.

CLEAR 1

Strengthen alignment between your priorities and your manager’s expectations.

RIDE Communication Framework

Help you persuade effectively, build trust, and gain support in any professional setting.

DISC Communication Styles Framework

Speak their language, not yours.

Freytag’s Pyramid

Helps communicators control emotional rhythm and attention over time.

SCR Framework

Resolve complications with concise, executive-ready solutions.

SCQA Framework

Structure complex messages into a clear narrative that leads the audience to your conclusion.

Pyramid Principle

Structured communication framework which is supporting your point with logically organized details and effective information delivery.

Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI): A Guide to Conflict Resolution

Using dual concern theory to understand and resolve conflicts.

FRAMEWORK CARD

Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)

Goal
Assess your default conflict style and expand your strategic repertoire.
Best For
Conflict Style Diagnosis; Negotiation Strategy; Leadership Development

Introduction

Regardless which role you are in, being an effective communicator within the organization is always important. This inevitably includes resolving conflicts that naturally arise when individuals, teams, or departments compete for scare resources.

Conflict management is a crucial skill that helps professionals navigate disagreements and disputes effectively.

Various approaches to conflict management can be applied depending on the situation, the nature of the conflict, and the desired outcome. Now we introduce some conflict management approaches based on varying levels of assertiveness and cooperation.

The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) is a powerful tool for understanding and navigating conflict.

Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode

Developed by Kenneth Thomas and Ralph Kilmann, the TKI introduces five distinct conflict-handling styles based on two fundamental dimensions: assertiveness and cooperativeness.

By understanding these dimensions and styles, individuals can become more adaptable and strategic in addressing conflicts effectively.

Core Concept: The Assertiveness and Cooperativeness Framework

The TKI framework categorizes conflict management into five unique styles, which balance the dimensions of assertiveness (meeting one's own needs) and cooperativeness (considering others' needs):

Competition

This approach involves assertively pursuing one's own goals and needs, sometimes at the expense of others.

Individuals using this style prioritize winning the argument or conflict, which can be effective when a quick, decisive action is needed, such as in emergencies. However, overuse can strain relationships as others may feel unheard.

Accommodation

Here, individuals set aside their own concerns to satisfy the needs of others.

Accommodating is valuable in maintaining harmony or showing goodwill, especially when the issue is less important to the accommodating person. However, if relied on too heavily, it may lead to a sense of imbalance and unmet personal needs.

Avoidance

This style neither prioritizes one’s own needs nor those of others. Avoiding is useful for minor issues or when there’s a need to delay the conflict for a better time, but it risks allowing problems to escalate if used to avoid addressing meaningful conflicts.

Collaboration

Collaborating seeks a win-win solution, actively addressing the needs of both parties. Although this approach requires time and open communication, it often results in stronger, more sustainable solutions and positive relationships.

Compromise

A compromise seeks middle ground, with each party giving up something to reach a balanced solution. This style can be effective for time-sensitive situations and minor conflicts, though it may lead to only partially satisfying both parties.

By recognizing these styles, individuals can choose the most appropriate response to different conflicts, increasing the likelihood of positive outcomes.

The key insight of the TKI is not that one mode is better than another.

Each conflict mode is situationally useful. The real skill is not having a “preferred” style, but knowing when to switch modes deliberately instead of reacting on autopilot.